LoveBirds Daily Devotional with Praise Fowowe

Family Systems 911 –135– MAN VS WOMAN



Born with a weight of expectation on her lean shoulder; Born an endangered specie because trapped in her is a treasure box; Born without a chance because culture & religion already defined her roles; Grew up without any form of protection from the people that should know better;  Developed without any form of empowerment because she was meant to be defined by a lover;  Ever though her body communicated a lady her soul was already damaged & the lady in her stolen; A victim of physical, emotional and sexual abuse. Even though the world called her a lady she was nothing but the sexy container of a stolen jewel.



With no positive esteem she finds a guy who told her everything she was never told alas here comes the love and appreciation she had always craved for; so she thought. She gave out her heart, her body and was willing to give her life. Severally she went through the valley of the shadow of death to deliver his seed through childbirth. He was meant to be a lover and all her life was supposed to be spent serving him according to tradition. Little did she know that her lover was also her killer. She thought she was free at last but in a lovers cage she found herself.



She came loaded with gifts which may never be expressed because she met a lover. She came with solutions which d world may never enjoy because she met a lover. She came with a brain that is excellent but reduced to a cookery book because she met her lover. Her lover turned out to be her killer.



A killer of her creativity and her identity; A killer of the hopes of an entire generation because even though in her resides the solution to our national crisis. It may never find expression because she is only deemed good enough as a support not the leader A killer of her emotional strength and esteem slaughtered on the altar of continuous verbal and emotional abuse  A killer of her body and soul occasioned by physical assault that common sense should have freed her from.



But while culture frowns at her ability to detach herself; religion teaches her to endure; and she dares not move to the law court because how does she gets justice when the determinant of her case is another lovely killer?



Is this your story?



A killer of her body and soul occasioned by physical assault that common sense should have freed her from.



But while culture frowns at her ability to detach herself; religion teaches her to endure; and she dares not move to the law court because how does she gets justice when the determinant of her case is another lovely killer



With her face battered… Her mind shattered..  And her body murdered….. What is left of the lady?



But the most important being the world needs is the lady not the lover and her killer



Would the society for once free her to be herself and deliver the solution she carries? Would religion free her from the weaker vessel syndrome because her meekness is not the same as weakness ? Would culture free her from a tradition that seeks to subjugate her even though she has been proven to demonstrate superior thinking and delivery at different forum? Would the lady arise to rescue other ladies from the clutches of a people who profess love but unwilling to give flight to her wings? Would the society arise to free the lady from the clutches of the killer who is disguised as a lover?



Can we all arise & commit never to use the same hands that should protect her to kill? Can every man stretch their hands today & commit to build, free and give flight to her wings ?



Can every man arise today and make a commitment to become a true bride groom whose core role is to groom the lady and set her free to become the best she can ever be. The killer must either be caged or made to go into extinction. The lover must be well cultivated and cultured on what true love is which is your willingness to add value to the lady for the rest of your life without expecting a thank you. And the lady must be set free to be the lady and deliver at the highest level possible



No woman deserves to die any longer in the hands of the killer . It is high time we arose & free the lady trapped behind the prison of religion, culture and tradition



Let today be that day when the killer becomes a true lover and where the result of that becomes the emergence of the lady – elegant, majestic, true and the incubator that births the dreams that makes the world a better place.



I pledge to my God and gender



To keep my hands from killing a woman



To treat every lady as our mother, sister, daughter and my global queen



To defend their dignity



And uphold their identity & purity



So help me God





Praise Fowowe


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