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Family Systems 911 –135– MAN VS WOMAN Born with a weight of expectation on her lean shoulder; Born an endangered specie because trapped in her is a treasure box; Born without a chance because culture & religion already defined her roles; Grew up without any form of protection from the people that should know better;  Developed without any form of empowerment because she was meant to be defined by a lover;  Ever though her body communicated a lady her soul was already damaged & the lady in her stolen; A victim of physical, emotional and sexual abuse. Even though the world called her a lady she was nothing but the sexy container of a stolen jewel. With no positive esteem she finds a guy who told her everything she was never told alas here comes the love and appreciation she had always craved for; so she thought. She gave out her heart, her body and was willing to give her life. Severally she went through the valley of the shadow of death to deliver his seed through c...

Courage is the most important of all the virtues because without courage, you can't practice any other virtue consistently. --Maya Angelou The best way to not feel hopeless is to get up and do something. Don’t wait for good things to happen to you. If you go out and make some good things happen, you will fill the world with hope, you will fill yourself with hope. --Barack Obama It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things. --Leonardo da Vinci Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never—in nothing, great or small, large or petty—never give in, except to convictions of honour and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy. --Winston S. Churchill If you try anything, if you try to lose weight, or to improve yourself, or to love, or to make the world a better place, you have already achieved something wonde...

STRENGTH doesn't come from what you can do. It comes from OVERCOMING the things you COULDN'T do. A normal person prays to God "Don't give me problems," but a great person prays to God "give me the strength to face my problems." Do not talk about the way you are; talk about the way you want to be. Direct your future with the power of your words. Leaders recognize that great innovation comes from observing the same ideas as everyone else and seeing something different. - Reed Markham Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow. - Ronald E. Osborn Successful and unsuccessful people do not vary greatly in their abilities.  They vary in their desires to reach their potential. - John Maxwell The man who moved a mountain was the one who began carrying away small stones. - Chinese Proverb The only difference between a success and a failure is that the successful person is willing to do what the failure...

Family Systems 911 –134– MAN VS WOMAN Born with a weight of expectation on her lean shoulder; Born an endangered specie because trapped in her is a treasure box; Born without a chance because culture & religion already defined her roles; Grew up without any form of protection from the people that should know better; Developed without any form of empowerment because she was meant to be defined by a lover; Ever though her body communicated a lady her soul was already damaged & the lady in her stolen; A victim of physical, emotional and sexual abuse. Even though the world called her a lady she was nothing but the sexy container of a stolen jewel. With no positive esteem she finds a guy who told her everything she was never told alas here comes the love and appreciation she had always craved for; so she thought. She gave out her heart, her body and was willing to give her life. Severally she went through the valley of the shadow of death to deliver his seed through childbirth....

Serving God doesn't mean we'll no longer have difficulties. We're still on the battlefield, but we don't have to fight alone. I have learned the important things in life. I'm not worried anymore about tomorrow, it's a new day and I'm glad I'm here to enjoy it. Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Learn from it; tomorrow is a new day. Life doesn't let you to go back and change things. All you can do is learn from the past, and prepare for what the future may bring. Let go of the disappointments and setbacks in your life and hang on to the promises of God for your future. Stand up to your obstacles & do something about them. You will find that they haven't half the strength you think they have. Find something that you're really interested in doing in your life. Pursue it, set goals & commit yourself to excellence. The most important key to achieving great success is to decide upon your goal an...

Happiness is a choice. You choose whether you want to be miserable or happy when you wake up. Choose wisely. A secret to happiness is letting every situation be what it is instead of what you think it should be, and then making the best of it. Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful. Do a good job, and don't worry about the money right away. Do your best work and it will take care of itself. If you feel like you never get any good breaks, change what you’re saying, and you will change what you’re seeing. The only person who is truly holding you back is you. No more excuses, it's time to change. It's time to live life at a new level. No matter who you are, no matter what you do, you absolutely, positively do have the power to change. The answers can be as clear as day.. But if you keep looking for dark storm clouds, you will never see the sun of truth. You cannot see your ref...

If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fcking phone call. --Greg Behrendt I'm about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. The word "busy" is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call. Remember men are never t...

If a problem is fixable, if a situation is such that you can do something about it, then there is no need to worry. If it's not fixable, then there is no help in worrying. There is no benefit in worrying whatsoever. --Dalai Lama XIV How would your life be different if…You stopped worrying about things you can’t control and started focusing on the things you can? Let today be the day…You free yourself from fruitless worry, seize the day and take effective action on things you can change. ---Steve Maraboli  If you have fear of some pain or suffering, you should examine whether there is anything you can do about it. If you can, there is no need to worry about it; if you cannot do anything, then there is also no need to worry. ---Dalai Lama XIV Worrying is carrying tomorrow's load with today's strength- carrying two days at once. It is moving into tomorrow ahead of time. Worrying doesn't empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength. ---Corrie ten Boom  Nev...

The goal of the enemy is always to make your problem or circumstances look bigger than God. He wants you to be afraid. Fear is the master of distortion. It makes us imagine things. It makes us lose sight of reality. It makes us lose hope. We are not ignorant of the devices of the enemy. To live with a feeling of fulfillment is the greatest blessings for any human being. Only when gratitude flowers can fulfillment happen. When gratitude becomes your attitude, fulfillment becomes your nature. ~ Paramahamsa Nithyananda When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everybody will respect you. ~ Lao Tzu The primary cause of unhappiness is not the situation, but your thoughts about it. Be aware of the thoughts you are thinking. Separate them from the situation, which is always neutral, which always is as it is. ~ Eckhart Tolle Integrating the mind is the essence of life. Decide you will always say and do only what you feel is right. Then, you will come to ...

Don't be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. --Rumi Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don't. ---Steve Maraboli There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises at every attempt to intimidate me. --Jane Austen Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who are alive. ~Howard Thurman You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you. ~ Sri Ram Ask yourself whether the dream of heaven and greatness should be waiting for us in our graves – or whether it should be ours here and now and on this earth. ~ Ayn Rand Happy people...

(Sunday Edition of Daily Mind Refreshment) Remember as you go about your day that you may be the only Jesus some of your friends, neighbors, and family will ever see. ---Wanda E. Brunstetter We need never shout across the spaces to an absent God. He is nearer than our own soul, closer than our most secret thoughts ---A.W. Tozer Do all the good you can. By all the means you can. In all the ways you can. In all the places you can. At all the times you can. To all the people you can. As long as ever you can. --John Wesley We may speak about a place where there are no tears, no death, no fear, no night; but those are just the benefits of heaven. The beauty of heaven is seeing God. --Max Lucado Radical obedience to Christ is not easy... It's not comfort, not health, not wealth, and not prosperity in this world. Radical obedience to Christ risks losing all these things. But in the end, such risk finds its reward in Christ. And he is more than enough for us. --David Platt Tr...

Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out. --Mandy Hale The moment you realize that the person you cared for has nothing intellectually or spiritually to offer you, but a headache. You need to take a walk my dear friend. The moment you realize God had greater plans for you that don’t involve crying at night or sad when you woke up in the morning. Then taking a walk is the next option. Happy Weekend My Kings and Queens I Appreciate You K.O.P Bashorun. 'Your Life Orator' BBM Channel: C00254A49 www.truthorator101.blogspot.com @Truthrator101 (c) 2015 Feel Free to Share The moment you realize that happiness was never about getting a person. They are only a help mate towards achieving your life mission. The moment you believe that love is not about losing or winning. It is just a few moments in time, followed...

As the roller coaster of the year 2014 is about to roll out of the surface of the earth, I take a stroll down the lane of my life in 2014. I examined myself in both the good and bad, the beautiful and ugly, the sweet and bitter, the light and dark side of my entire life. I remembered vividly 29th of December, 2013 when my father in the lord and my mentor tagged the year 2014 "The year of crossing the Bridge" and with numerous prophecies which he said we should pray against that God should avert and give us the Grace and the strength to see us through in crossing the because it is only him who can. On the 31st of December, 2013. All the churches were filled up beyond their usual capacity, everybody waiting expectantly to see the new baby to be given birth to and each us of waiting with our different heart desires and wishes pumping from earth to heaven and so loud that angels have to use their hands to block their ears and finally by 12am, the new born baby was finally giv...

Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you. Funny how your life improves when you surround yourself with positive, affirming, accepting and non-judgmental people The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward. Why compare yourself with others? No one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you. Be the best version of you. Million dollar ideas are a dime a dozen. The determination to see the idea through is what's priceless. Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, and make you happy. If you know people who do none of these things, let them go. Hope is wishing something would happen. Faith is believing something will happen. Courage is making something happen. Good Evening My Kings and Queens I Appreciate You K.O.P Bashorun. 'Your Life Orator' BBM Channel: C00254A49 www.trut...

Health for both mind & body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment. One of the greatest tragedies in life is to lose your own sense of self and accept the version of you that is expected by everyone else. Respect the people who find time in their schedule to see you, and love the people who never look at their schedule when you need them. Not everyone is good for your self esteem. Be careful who you choose for friends - and who you spend time with. The content of your character is your choice.  Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. - Heraclitus The only thing more important than your dreams, is what you are going to do to make them real. “When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” —Haruki Murakami “Many people put their feelings on automatic pilot. Their feelings that are the c...

TruthOrator Entrepreneur And Business Empowerment Quotes “Your reputation is more important than your paycheck, and your integrity is worth more than your career.” — Ryan Freitas, “Money is like gasoline during a road trip. You don’t want to run out of gas on your trip, but you’re not doing a tour of gas stations.” —Tim O’Reilly “Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.” —Steve Jobs “The most dangerous poison is the feeling of achievement. The antidote is to every evening think what can be done better tomorrow.” —Ingvar Kamprad “If there’s something you want to build, but the tech isn’t there yet, just find the closest possible way to make it happen.” —Dennis Crowley, “It’s hard to do a really good job on anything you don’t think about in the shower.” —Paul Graham “If you’re interested in the living heart of what you do, ...

j“Fellow Nigerians: Forget about your political affiliations for a moment, put aside your ethnic empathies in an instant, overlook your religious associations in a jiffy, and ask yourselves some frank questions. (1) Is my future guaranteed now than when Dr. Goodluck Jonathan became the 14th Nigerian head of state on May 5, 2010? (2) Am I truly more secured and unrestricted in Nigeria today than four years ago? (3) With the current level of insecurity, low standards of education, and dearth of infrastructure, can I truthfully say that my children face an enhanced future? If you answer ‘yes’ to any of the above questions, you possibly belong to one of the following groups: you are benefiting from the rot in Nigeria; you are from the same region as some of the officials; you share the same religion with some officeholders, or; you cannot fathom how low Nigeria has sunk on the rungs of world ladder, under President Jonathan. Nostalgically, you would recall that our country gained indep...

TruthOrator's Weekend Love, Relationship and Mind Empowerment Tips “Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.” – Anais Nin  “Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” – Marcel Proust “A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.” – Donna Roberts “Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don’t over-analyze your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness. “ – Leo F. Buscaglia “Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.” – Eleanor Roosevelt “When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is str...

Each morning when I woke up, my wealth of thoughts wakes up with me which is the greatest asset God has given me and the greatest investment I have invested in so far in my life. My thought is my world, my power and it is a place I can stir up anytime to make wonders happened. I cherish it so much that it is a no go area for anybody not even the devil himself which is made possible by words of God because God's words is life and God's words is grace and the word is Jesus christ. #‎Mythoughtsis‬#Mypower #‎Goodmorning‬ #‎Happyweekend‬

Wow! 2015 is here finally, glowing like the mid-night star and shining like a rising sun. Animals, trees, plants, sands, rocks, valleys, lakes, oceans and so waving their hands and shouting hallelujah, hossanah from the deepest part of their hearts because they have the grace to see 2015. Hmmm, this is serious but if these creatures can be so full of joy like this, what more can we expect from humans, people celebrating and jubilating for the new born baby, churches, mosques, clubs, hotels, hospitals and so on were filled with capacity of people making wishes and new year resolution of what they want their 2015 to look like and end like, heaven have been overloaded with wishes because they have not even stop wishing from 31st night till now. New year resolution and wishes cannot be counted in heaven even the store room is almost filled up but I will like to asked some questions: How many times have you shouted happy new year? How many times have you make new year resolution? How ...