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“Enthusiasm is the yeast that raises the dough.” – Paul J. Meyer “Let go of your attachment of being right, and suddenly your mind is more open. You’re able to benefit from the unique viewpoints of others, without being crippled by your own judgment.” – Ralph Marston “You teach best what you most need to learn.” – Richard Bach “Brains aren’t designed to get result; they go in directions. If you know how the brain works you can set your own directions. If you don’t, then someone else will.” – Richard Bandler “If you see yourself as prosperous, you will be. If you see yourself as continually hard up, that is exactly what you will be.” – Robert Collier “Two roads diverged in a wood, and I – I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.” – Robert Frost “Don’t let the opinions of the average man sway you. Dream, and he thinks you’re crazy. Succeed, and he thinks you’re lucky. Acquire wealth, and he thinks you’re greedy. Pay no attention. He simply doesn’

Real success means creating a life of meaning through service that fulfills your reason for being here. -Oprah Winfrey I have seen business moguls achieve their ultimate goals but still live in frustration, worry, and fear. What’s preventing these successful people for being happy? The answer is they have focused only on achievement and not fulfillment. Extraordinary accomplishment does not guarantee extraordinary joy, happiness, love, and a sense of meaning. These two skill sets feed off each other, and make me believe that success without fulfillment is failure. -Tony Robbins The more intensely we feel about an idea or a goal, the more assuredly the idea, buried deep in our subconscious, will direct us along the path to its fulfillment. -Earl Nightingale You have everything you need for complete peace and total happiness right now. -Wayne W. Dyer The only thing that will stop you from fulfilling your dreams is you. -Tom Bradley It is not in the pursuit of happiness that we

Man can never know the loneliness a woman knows. Man lies in the woman's womb only to gather strength, he nourishes himself from this fusion, and then he rises and goes into the world, into his work, into battle, into art. He is not lonely. He is busy. The memory of the swim in amniotic fluid gives him energy, completion. Woman may be busy too, but she feels empty. Sensuality for her is not only a wave of pleasure in which she is bathed, and a charge of electric joy at contact with another. When man lies in her womb, she is fulfilled, each act of love a taking of man within her, an act of birth and rebirth, of child rearing and man bearing. Man lies in her womb and is reborn each time anew with a desire to act, to be. But for woman, the climax is not in the birth, but in the moment man rests inside of her. --Anaïs Nin Part of the problem with the word 'disabilities' is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take

"Everything begins with an idea." - Earl Nightengale "Capital isn't that important in business. Experience isn't that important. You can get both of these things. What is important is ideas." - Harvey Firestone "A mediocre idea that generates enthusiasm will go further than a great idea that inspires no one." - Mary Kay Ash "We often refuse to accept an idea merely because the tone of voice in which it has been expressed is unsympathetic to us."- Friedrich Nietzche "I know quite certainly that I myself have no special talent. Curiosity, obsession and dogged endurance, combined with self-criticism, have brought me to my ideas." - Albert Einstein "A pile of rocks ceases to be a rock when somebody contemplates it with the idea of a cathedral in mind." - Antoine St. Exupery "If you want to kill any idea in the world, get a committee working on it." - Charles Kettering "Right now it's only a

Marriage is not a two minute instant noodle; you need to take your time before venturing into it. The numerous house chores she does for you do not guarantee she is your wife; the different styles of sex you both have does not mean you will eventually marry her. The “help” called wife is more precious than anything God ever made. She must be covered so deep that you need to search and search to find her. Not all these thin legged girls, who expose their big pumped tattooed boobs, stinking bum bum and tooth – pick thighs you pick on the road while driving, or the ones you meet at the club who have no future ambition. Neither is she just any girl you meet in the Church. The scripture says, he who finds a wife, finds a good thing because your wife should help you grow in every ramification of your life – your business, career, home, personal life, spiritual life and other areas. When she comes into your life, then you have obtained favor from God. Therefore, you don’t just pick her ac

You are only destined to become one person – the person you decide to be. Do good and feel good.  Do bad and feel bad.  It’s that simple. You are what you do today, not what you say you’ll do tomorrow. We all make choices, but in the end our choices make us. Ultimately, it’s not what you do every once in a while; it’s what you dedicate. yourself to on a regular basis that makes the difference. Stay true to yourself.  Never be ashamed of doing what feels right.  Decide what you think is right and stick to it. If you don’t stand for anything, you will remain forever on your knees. No amount of money will make you happy if you aren’t happy with yourself. You know you’ve made the right decision when there is peace in your heart. Don’t worry if your goals seem crazy to other people; oftentimes the crazy ideas are the ones that have the greatest impact. If you’re thinking like everyone else, then you aren’t thinking.  (Read Thinking, Fast and Slow.) Control your own des

A silly idea is current that good people do not know what temptation means. This is an obvious lie. Only those who try to resist temptation know how strong it is... A man who gives in to temptation after five minutes simply does not know what it would have been like an hour later. That is why bad people, in one sense, know very little about badness. They have lived a sheltered life by always giving in. --C.S. Lewis realize that the greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity, or power, but self-rejection. Success, popularity, and power can indeed present a great temptation, but their seductive quality often comes from the way they are part of the much larger temptation to self-rejection. When we have come to believe in the voices that call us worthless and unlovable, then success, popularity, and power are easily perceived as attractive solutions. The real trap, however, is self-rejection. As soon as someone accuses me or criticizes me, as soon as I am rejected, left alone,

(WARNING: ALOT OF CURSE WORDS AND F-WORD THEREIN) . Let’s be honest: our education system is f**ked. I mean, almost all of the important history I learned between grades 5 and 12 I could probably find on Wikipedia and understand within a few weeks now. And pretty much any scientific knowledge you could ever want to learn is explained with pretty videos on YouTube. On top of that, you have the most unstable job market in almost 100 years, technology developing so rapidly that robots will be doing half the work in another decade, college degrees that some argue are now worthless, and new industries and technologies being invented practically every six months. . Yet we’re still pushing kids through the same curriculum their grandparents went through. . It’s cliche at this point to say that the most important things you learn in life you don’t learn in school. I know in my life, the most important things I’ve learned I had to figure out on my own as an adult. . But why couldn’t th

So the small things came into their own: small acts of helping others, if one could; small ways of making one's own life better: acts of love, acts of tea, acts of laughter. Clever people might laugh at such simplicity, but, she asked herself, what was their own solution? --Alexander McCall Smith Every game is winnable if you change your mind about what the prize should be and your perspective about the players at the table. --Shannon L. Alder You can be yourself without pursuing yourself. Have you ever seen a dog chase his own tail? He just runs in circles. --Criss Jami I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by conscious endeavor. -Henry David Thoreau Accept everything about yourself - I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end - no apologies, no regrets. -Clark Moustakas A man’s life begins to improve, the moment he realizes his prese When you reach out to those in need, do not be surpr

The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well. --Ralph Waldo Emerson The best way to not feel hopeless is to get up and do something. Don’t wait for good things to happen to you. If you go out and make some good things happen, you will fill the world with hope, you will fill yourself with hope. --Barack Obama There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up. --John Holmes The best antidote I know for worry is work. The best cure for weariness is the challenge of helping someone who is even more tired. One of the great ironies of life is this: He or she who serves almost always benefits more than he or she who is served. --Gordon B. Hinckley You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you. --John Bunyan Love is not patronizing and charity isn't about pity, it is about love. Charit

TruthOrator's Weekend Love, Relationship and Mind Empowerment Tips A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman's heart. --Shannon L. Alder People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray them the most. --Shannon L. Alder I cannot compromise my respect for your love. You can keep your love, I will keep my respect. --Amit Kalantri Diversity of character is due to the unequal time given to values. Only through each other will we see the importance of the qualities we lack and our unfinished soul's potential. --Shannon L. Alder It doesn't matter wether you like or dislike the people around you but all you are asked to do is to respect them as a human being that they are. --KOP Bashorun Not obedience or feelings or respect, there is only one thing which people take seri

When you're the only sane person, you look like the only insane person. --Criss Jami I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting. It has taken me so many years to be okay with being different, and with being this alive, this intense. ---Eve Ensler Just because a person chooses to express themselves in an extreme way doesn't mean they have an extreme personality. --Susane Colasanti It has always been simple, but making it hard was always your way of avoiding pain. If you want to change your life, you have to change what you are doing. It wasn't his fault, her fault, their fault or the circumstances. It was your inability to choose. So, life chose for you. Somewhere in that crazy mind of yours time stopped. You thought someone would rescue you, but they didn't. You have to rescue yourself. This is not a fire you can put out; you have to walk through it, in order to reach life. Getting burned is apart of growth, didn't you kn

Few minds are spacious; few even have an empty place in them or can offer some vacant point. Almost all have narrow capacities and are filled by some knowledge that blocks them up. What a torture to talk to filled heads, that allow nothing from the outside to enter them! A good mind, in order to enjoy itself and allow itself to enjoy others, always keeps itself larger than its own thoughts. And in order to do this, these thoughts must be given a pliant form, must be easily folded and unfolded, so that they are capable, finally, of maintaining a natural flexibility. All those short-sighted minds see clearly within their little ideas and see nothing in those of others; they are like those bad eyes that see from close range what is obscure and cannot perceive what is clear from afar. Night minds, minds of darkness. --Joseph Joubert There's no such thing as a mistake, really. It's just an opportunity to do something else. --Ralph Steadman Not wanting to change, constantly figh

Every challenge you encounter in life is a fork in the road. You have the choice to choose which way to go - backward, forward, breakdown or breakthrough. --Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoha Everybody is standing, but you must stand out. Everybody is breaking grounds; but you must breakthrough! Everybody scratching it; but you must scratch it hard! Everybody is going, but you must keep going extra miles! Dare to be exceptionally excellent and why not? --Israelmore Ayivor Maybe it's wrong when we remember breakthroughs to our own being as something that occurs in discrete, extraordinary moments. Maybe falling in love, the piercing knowledge that we ourselves will someday die, and the love of snow are in reality not some sudden events; maybe they were always present. Maybe they never completely vanish, either. --Peter Høeg If you want victory in your life you must learn to be alone with your own thoughts and cause them to be correct thoughts! --Sandra Hersey Strong enough to make holes i

"The leaders who work most effectively, it seems to me, never say 'I.' And that's not because they have trained themselves not to say 'I.' They don't think 'I.' They think 'we'; they think 'team.' They understand their job to be to make the team function. They accept responsibility and don't sidestep it, but 'we' gets the credit.... This is what creates trust, what enables you to get the task done." --Peter Drucker "Trust is built when someone is vulnerable and not taken advantage of." --Bob Vanourek, author of Triple Crown Leadership "The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them." --Ernest Hemingway "If you don't have trust inside your company, then you can't transfer it to your customers." --Roger Staubach "The people when rightly and fully trusted will return the trust." --Abraham Lincoln "Trust is the lubrication that makes it p

Think twice before you pull your trouser and rape a woman; she may be your mother, sister or friend, and you know the consequences that follows. --Michael Bassey Johnson Young girls are like helpless children in the hands of amorous men, whatever is said to them is true and whatever manipulation on their bodies seems like love to them, sooner or later, they come back to their senses, but the scars are not dead inasmuch as her spoiler lives. --Michael Bassey Johnson, Let's teach that loving isn't always loving. Like when you loved the hamster so much that it died. Some adults do that too. Too much, the wrong way. These are 'Stay away' zones on your body. These are 'Stay away' people. You don't have to obey all adults. Not even parents. Disagree respectfully. Run, if you need. Shout, if you need. Adults can be bad too. --Deborah Ainslie Religion has the capacity to silence critical thinking and create blindness in entire groups of people. It can infect t