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The best executive is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and self-restraint to keep from meddling with them while they do it. ---Theodore Roosevelt Leaders must be close enough to relate to others, but far enough ahead to motivate them. --John C. Maxwell People who don't take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year. People who do take risks generally make about two big mistakes a year. --Peter F. Drucker If you really want the key to success, start by doing the opposite of what everyone else is doing. --Brad Szollose Good management is the art of making problems so interesting and their solutions so constructive that everyone wants to get to work and deal with them. --Paul Hawken Too many companies believe people are interchangeable. Truly gifted people never are. They have unique talents. Such people cannot be forced into roles they are not suited for, nor should they be. Effective leaders allow great people to do the work ...

You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength. --Marcus Aurelius What we call our destiny is truly our character and that character can be altered. The knowledge that we are responsible for our actions and attitudes does not need to be discouraging, because it also means that we are free to change this destiny. One is not in bondage to the past, which has shaped our feelings, to race, inheritance, background. All this can be altered if we have the courage to examine how it formed us. We can alter the chemistry provided we have the courage to dissect the elements. --Anaïs Nin Any woman who is sure of her own wits, is a match, at any time, for a man who is not sure of his own temper. --Wilkie Collins Never respond to an angry person with a fiery comeback, even if he deserves it...Don't allow his anger to become your anger. --Bohdi Sanders If you truly want to be respected by people you love, you must prove to them that you can su...

There is no respect between the souls of two individuals if their minds can’t trust each other and there is no trust between them if their hearts can’t accept the truth of each other. --Anuj Somany Selflessness is humility. ... humility and freedom go hand in hand. Only a humble person can be free. --Jeff Wilson While you are so busy trying to make yourself humble, many are persistently and quietly promoting themselves. --Toba Beta Some of you need a lesson in humility. While your arrogance may give you a sense of power, it may serve you better to put it aside. Those are the times you will be the light of the world. --J 'son M. Lee A person who is humble would never be abusive or selfish; so don't abuse yourself or withhold self-love or self-care. --Bryant McGill You don't lose anythings by being humble. A humble person will win the heart of a King. --Lailah Gifty Akita For the vile human pigs in life; the sloppy, disheveled, uncaring dregs, the ungrateful, and ...

Man often becomes what he believes himself to be. If I keep on saying to myself that I cannot do a certain thing, it is possible that I may end by really becoming incapable of doing it. On the contrary, if I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it even if I may not have it at the beginning. ---Mahatma Gandhi Wherever you find a great man, you will find a great mother or a great wife standing behind him -- or so they used to say. It would be interesting to know how many great women have had great fathers and husbands behind them. --Dorothy L. Sayers If women are expected to do the same work as men, we must teach them the same things. --Plato Men know that women are an overmatch for them, and therefore they choose the weakest or the most ignorant. If they did not think so, they never could be afraid of women knowing as much as themselves. --Samuel Johnson Do the thing you're good at. Not many people are lucky enough to be so good at some...

They say a good love is one that sits you down, gives you a drink of water, and pats you on top of the head. But I say a good love is one that casts you into the wind, sets you ablaze, makes you burn through the skies and ignite the night like a phoenix; the kind that cuts you loose like a wildfire and you can't stop running simply because you keep on burning everything that you touch! I say that's a good love; one that burns and flies, and you run with it! ---C. JoyBell C. It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being. --John Joseph Powell -We need more love, to supersede hatred, -We need more strength, to resist our weaknesses, -We need more inspiration, to lighten up our innermind. -We need more learning, to erase our ignorance, -We need more wisdom, to live longer and happier, -We need more truths, to suppress d...

The human race tends to remember the abuses to which it has been subjected rather than the endearments. What's left of kisses? Wounds, however, leave scars. ---Bertolt Brecht ... you don't have to wait for someone to treat you bad repeatedly. All it takes is once, and if they get away with it that once, if they know they can treat you like that, then it sets the pattern for the future. --Jane Green But even when I stop crying, even when we fall asleep and I'm nestled in his arms, this will leave another scar. No one will see it. No one will know. But it will be there. And eventually all of the scars will have scars, and that's all I'll be--one big scar of a love gone wrong. --Amanda Grace There'a a phrase, "the elephant in the living room", which purports to describe what it's like to live with a drug addict, an alcoholic, an abuser. People outside such relationships will sometimes ask, "How could you let such a business go on for so man...

Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. --Mahatma Gandhi The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you'll go. ---Dr. Seuss We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don't even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It's time to put an end to this. It's time for us to let ourselves be loved. --C. JoyBell C Pain is a pesky part of being human, I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast s...

Our wretched species is so made that those who walk on the well-trodden path always throw stones at those who are showing a new road. --Voltaire Throughout history, people with new ideas—who think differently and try to change things—have always been called troublemakers. --Richelle Mead Imagination is not only the uniquely human capacity to envision that which is not, and, therefore, the foundation of all invention and innovation. In its arguably most transformative and revelatory capacity, it is the power that enables us to empathize with humans whose experiences we have never shared. --J.K. Rowling Dreamers are mocked as impractical. The truth is they are the most practical, as their innovations lead to progress and a better way of life for all of us. --Robin S. Sharma Remember the two benefits of failure. First, if you do fail, you learn what doesn't work; and second, the failure gives you the opportunity to try a new approach. --Roger Von Oech The vast majority of hu...

When your mother asks, "Do you want a piece of advice?" it's a mere formality. It doesn't matter if you answer yes or no. You're going to get it anyway. --Erma Bombeck As mothers and daughters, we are connected with one another. My mother is the bones of my spine, keeping me straight and true. She is my blood, making sure it runs rich and strong. She is the beating of my heart. I cannot now imagine a life without her. --Kristin Hannah A daughter without her mother is a woman broken. It is a loss that turns to arthritis and settles deep into her bones. --Kristin Hannah Through the blur, I wondered if I was alone or if other parents felt the same way I did - that everything involving our children was painful in some way. The emotions, whether they were joy, sorrow, love or pride, were so deep and sharp that in the end they left you raw, exposed and yes, in pain. The human heart was not designed to beat outside the human body and yet, each child represented jus...

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If a woman can show men that she is honest, loyal, trustworthy, and sexually responsible, then she will have the most powerful weapon to attract men. If, on the other hand, a woman abuses her sexual power with many men, it will backfire on her. Unfortunately, women only realize this when it’s too late and the only choice they have is to lie. Most women have lost a sense of value for their sexuality over the years. They’ve realized that sex is fun and pleasurable, but in the process, they’ve forgotten that it’s the one gift that they can offer to their lover. When men meet women, they usually categorize them into two categories: the potentially serious relationship kind, or the “have fun in the process” girl. The outcome of the man’s decision will ultimately be based on how a woman behaves around him. If a lady sleeps with a man on the first few nights, he’ll definitely throw her in the fun category. But if she can show him that her body is worth a lot more and that he’s going to ...

Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn't sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim. ---Paulo Coelho But when a woman decides to sleep with a man, there is no wall she will not scale, no fortress she will not destroy, no moral consideration she will not ignore at its very root: there is no God worth worrying about. --Gabriel Garcí­a Márquez Some people claim that marriage interferes with romance. There's no doubt about it. Anytime you have a romance, your wife is bound to interfere. --Groucho Marx So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who know...

The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter. --Paulo Coelho There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you, and there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself. --Lemony Snicket To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect. --Criss Jami A waiting person is a patient person. The word patience means the willingness to stay where we are and live the situation out to the full in the belief that something hidden there will manifest itself to us. --Henri J.M. Nouwen Make your ego porous. Will is of little importance, complaining is nothing, fame is nothing. Openness, patience, receptivity, solitude is everything. --Rainer Maria Rilke Water does not resist...

Instead of thinking about where you are, think about where you want to be. It takes 20 years of hard work to become an overnight success. Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one. --- Marcus Aurelius "Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe.” ― Albert Einstein “It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it.” ― Maurice Switzer Remember, hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies. --- Stephen King Having somewhere to go is home, having someone to love is family, having both is blessing. Perhaps the secret of living well is not in having all the answers but in pursuing unanswerable questions in good company. A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked. Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you - not becaus...

What we really want to do is what we are really meant to do. When we do what we are meant to do, money comes to us, doors open for us, we feel useful, and the work we do feels like play to us. –Julia Cameron It is time for us to stand and cheer for the doer, the achiever, the one who recognizes the challenge and does something about it. –Vince Lombardi Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted. –Albert Einstein Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success. –Dale Carnegie Don’t tell me what you value, show me your budget, and I’ll tell you what you value.” –Joe Biden I never attempt to make money on the stock market. I buy on the assumption that they could close the market the next day and not reopen it for ten years. –Warren Buffett Money never made a man happy yet, nor will it. The more a man has, the more he wants. Instead of filling a vacuum, it makes one. –Benjam...

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I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list of certain qualities. If he has them, we'd be compatible and happy. Sort of a checkmark system that was a complete failure. But I found out that a healthy relationship isn't so much about sense of humor or intelligence or attractive. It's about avoiding partners with harmful traits and personality types. And then it's about being with a good person. A good person on his own, and a good person with you. Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy. A good relationship is where things just work. They work because, whatever the list of qualities, whatever the reason, you happen to be really, really good together. --Deb Caletti but something always went wrong, and the relationship would end precisely at the moment when she was sure that this was the person with whom she wanted to spend the rest of her life. After a long time, she came to the conclusion that men brought only pain, frust...

Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. -Norman Vincent Peal People who love themselves, don’t hurt other people. The more we hate ourselves, the more we want others to suffer. --Dan Pearce Don't waste your energy trying to change opinions ... Do your thing, and don't care if they like it.--Tina Fey Staying silent is like a slow growing cancer to the soul and a trait of a true coward. There is nothing intelligent about not standing up for yourself. You may not win every battle. However, everyone will at least know what you stood for—YOU. --Shannon L. Alder A diamond doesn't start out polished and shining. It once was nothing special, but with enough pressure and time, becomes spectacular. I'm that diamond. --Solange nicole You have a unique gift to offer this world. Be true to yourself, be kind to yourself, read and learn about everything that interests ...

Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. --August Wilson Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself. --Harvey Fierstein When you're different, sometimes you don't see the millions of people who accept you for what you are. All you notice is the person who doesn't. --Jodi Picoult You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. --Gautama Buddha That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is. Most people love you for who you pretend to be. To keep their love, you keep pretending - performing. You get t...

You just shouldn`t depend on next times and second chances. You never know if they come. Today will never come again. Be a blessing. Be a friend. Encourage someone. Take time to care. Let your words heal, and not wound. "Whoever loves much, performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well." -- Vincent Van Gogh We learn something from everyone who passes through our lives.. Some lessons are painful, some are painless.. but all are priceless. A mediocre idea that generates enthusiasm will go further than a great idea that inspires no one. The truth is you don’t know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride and nothing is guaranteed. "Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success." --- Dale Carnegi You must take action now that will move you towards your goals. Develop a sense of urgency in your life. Believe that you possess a basic goodness, which i...

I think not focusing on money makes you sane because in the long run it can probably drive you crazy.” – Kevin Systrom “The companies that I really admire the most are the ones that have a deep visceral understanding of why people use their service, and they figure out ways of making money that are completely consistent with how people are feeling and what they are doing at the time.” – Ben Silbermann, “To be successful online, you have to be nimble and evolve where the opportunities are. You have to layer revenue streams.” – Angelo Sotiro “There are a lot of rich people in the world. There are very few people who have the privilege of getting to invent things that billions of people use.” – David Karp “Every single person I know who is successful at what they do is successful because they love doing it.” – Joe Penna “We led with our conviction rather than rational, because rational said it was impossible.” – Daniel Ek “A poor logo doesn’t mean a...