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If you're born and bred in Yoruba land then you will be familiar with the phrase "the end ni opin cinema" which simply means "the movie has ended". And I can boldly prophesy that 2019 ends in few hours even though I am not a prophet. Few hours from now, 2019 will finally gbe body while 2020 will gbese wole. For some people, 2019 has ended as far back as February because they failed to meet up with their new year resolutions. So for them, nothing is remaining of 2019 again. 2019 may have been very awful for you because you failed on your new year resolutions, you couldn't achieve all your goals, the unexpected happened or you lost someone or some things very dare to your heart or Buhari's economy singlehandedly dealt with you just like me😉, so you couldn't wait for 2019 to just pack it's bag and baggage and never return again.. As we wait expectantly for 2020 to gbe body wole completely, every altars will be engaged in spiritual battles tonight,

Don't allow life challenges, anything or anyone make you believe that nothing good can come out of you. You are just a raw material that God is still working on day and night. You just need to be patience enough with him and follow the process he is taking you through. Do not allow impatience make find alternative routes. If you create another route for yourself, you will be pull back that is if you are lucky and if you're not, you will be pull down. It is a new week loaded with new hope and breakthroughs. Don't sit indoor and wishing something happens but step out of your comfort zone, go for your hustle and God will surely bless your hustle. Written by KOP Bashorun  *TruthOrator Daily Thought*  Happy New Week Friends   Be intentional about anything and everything you do...... #TruthOrator  #TeamNoExcuse # *SPEED @Truthorator101 ©TruthOrator2019

Trust is a fragile thing. You’ve probably heard that before. You’ve also probably heard trust is earned, not given. Or trust is everything. Or maybe even trust is like an eraser; it gets smaller with every mistake. Regardless, the idea of trust is the most basic, yet essential part of every single relationship. It is the spine, the backbone of what it means to love another person.     When you trust someone, you allow yourself to be vulnerable. You let that person in. You give that person your heart, your entire soul, and believe, despite all of the crap in the world, that they will take care of it.      You watch that person walk away and you have confidence that they are respectable and won’t go throwing themselves around or flirting behind your back or opening themselves to any other human besides you. But the thing about trust, is that it relies so much on the unknown. It is a testament of faith, that despite the odds and no matter what the world says, you believe the person you lo

1. Appreciate her for little things A woman’s job is never done. From sun up to sun down, most women have a ton of things to do along with keeping their man happy in a relationship. It makes a woman feel important and special when you take time to recognize all that she does. A simple,”Thank you for cooking dinner, I really appreciate it”, can put a smile on her face. No woman wants to be in a relationship that she feels invisible in. Recognizing her efforts is the very fuel that can inspire her to keep doing more for you. 2. Let her feel secure  She deserves safety and security.Whether you are providing a roof over her head or protection over her heart, every woman needs her safe haven. When a man can give a woman the reassurance that he will do anything to protect her heart, her well being and her spirit, it brings a certain level of peace over her. When a woman feels safe, she feels free. You can’t expect her to continue being your angel if you don’t create a heaven like environment

Just to state the obvious, relationships can be very rewarding but they are not easy. They are journeys that may bring challenges in the beginning, the middle, and the end. I want to share in this post a few of the difficulties and things to keep in mind, as couples navigate these stages. Beginnings To start a relationship we may need to  overcome fears and doubts , old and new, that get in the way. Taking the risk of being open and vulnerable can sometimes be really difficult. Do we feel safe enough to let the other in? Do we allow ourselves to love and to be loved? Should we risk expressing our feelings despite the fear –or maybe the anticipation- of rejection and pain? Many of the people that I have worked with in my practice have struggled with these questions. Some believe that their emotions are too big, they are too needy, or their baggage is too complicated, and wonder if they will be too much. Others, on the other hand, feel like there is something wrong with them and wonder i

"That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Nietzsche, history's greatest angsty teenage boy, blithely asserted this whopper of an untruth in his 1888 book  Twilight of the Idols . My first thought in response to the quote is simply: "No it doesn't," or "Tell that to a tetraplegic." I have been accused by some commenters, though, of missing the point of phrases by taking them too literally, or of not understanding the motivation and reasoning behind the things I am taking down. In deference to that, let me say that I recognize the thought behind this quote. It is often taken to mean something along the lines of the great Oscar Wilde line that " Experience is simply the name we give to our mistakes ." It is meant to inspire  an attitude of resilience  and determination. The idea is that with the proper understanding and attitude, a man can stand up to anything at all and still progress in his life. I chose those pronouns for a reason.